Thank you all so much!
Hi everyone, this is Brian. This is my 1st time writting on the blog. I would like to thank everyone for supporting me. I want to thank everyone in Burlington VT for keeping me alive for starters, as well as befriending me and taking care of Emily.
I want to thank everyone at Mt. Sinai for giving me the shove I needed to keep going and for being so helpful and caring. You took us rednecks in as your own.
Now Ogdensburg Rehab is a whole other story. I want to thank everyone for helping me be a part of the best day of my life. Being able to be there when Karissa came into this world is the best gift I could ever be given. You all treated us like family and took us in as a family. You will never know how much that means to me.
I also want to thank all of the special people who helped us make it through this tragedy. I want to thank both of our families for sticking by us and always being there for us. A huge thanks goes out to my mom Linda for never leaving my side in Burlington and the rest of my family for being my biggest cheerleaders. I would have never made it without you. My brother Shane & Jamie have kept my dream of hunting alive, I thank you so much. My brother Eric for doing all of the flooring for us and my sister Dawn, Randy, Michelle & Shawn for the benefit and coming to see me everywhere we went. I love you guys so much!!! I am proud to have you as my family.
Another huge Thank you goes out to Emily's entire family for everything they have done for us. I appreciate all of the support, visits, jamboree and helping Emily out in every way. You all are a huge part of my life and I thank you so much for treating me like your own. Grandma, thank you so much for everything you do for us. You have created a family full of wonderful people. I am so sorry that we have been apart for so long because of the C-diff.
There are no words to express the gratitude I have for Em's mom Noreen and her stepfather Bill for rearranging their entire lives so we could have a place to call home. They have given up so much for us and I am so greatful. The money and time spent to have us live together is more appreciated then you will ever know. I also need to thank Noreen for being by my side and being there for Emily in Burlington, New York City and Ogdensburg. Thanks Bill for everything you do, you have always treated me like a son and that means the world to me. Thank you. I love you guys so much!
A gigantic thank you to my wonderful wife. I don't even know where to begin. You have never left my side and never giving up on me. Being pregnant and dealing with all you had to deal with is just totally unbelieveable. Thank you so much being my best friend. You are the most amazing person in the world, there is no way I could ever thank you enough or repay you for all that you do for me. I could never survive a day of my life both physically and emotionaly without you. You have given up your entire life and there is no way that I could begin to thank you enough for that or if thank you is even the right thing to say. I am so sorry for all of the problems I have caused and for killing all of our lifelong dreams, it kills me every day. YOU MEAN MORE TO ME THAN YOU COULD EVER IMAGINE. I LOVE YOU SO MUCH! THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR KARISSA, SHE IS THE MOST WONDERFUL GIFT EVER.
Last but not least thank you to Katie for starting this blog and for being there and helping us out in New york. The blog has been the only connection we had with "home" while away and now a nice way to keep in touch.
I have been trying to do this for hours and am exhausted and my arm is getting tired from the typing stick, so I have to go. Thanks again to everyone. I love you all!
BRIAN

13 Comments:
Dear Bri,
You are such an amazing person. How lucky we are that you have touched all our lives with your strength, love, humor and smile. You are so fortunate to have Em and Karissa but they are just as lucky to have you. The world is definately a better place because you're in it. I love you dearly and I think about all three of you everyday. You are and will always be my knight in shining armor!
Love, Betsy
Brian, Emily, Karissa-
It is so wonderful that you are doing wonderful. The baby is beautiful. We think of you all the time.
Virginia, Scott, Mindylee
WHAT A BEAUTIFUL LETTER, BRIAN. TEARS ARE FLOWING FREELY, BUT NO ONE CAN READ YOUR LETTER WITHOUT THAT HAPPENING. THANK YOU FOR THE WRITING ABOUT MY FAMILY. ANYONE WHO GETS TO KNOW YOU FINDS A VERY LOVING MAN, AND WE HAVE LOVED YOU SINCE THE DAY WE MET YOU. I AM SO PROUD OF YOU, THE STRENGTH AND ATTITUDE YOU HAVE HAD SINCE LAST JULY. YOU ARE AND ALWAYS WILL BE THE STRONGEST PERSON I HAVE EVER KNOWN. EMILY IS A VERY LOVING WIFE WHO LOVES YOU SO MUCH. NOW YOU HAVE KARISSA, WHO IS SO BEAUTIFUL. LIFE IS GOOD, BRIAN, AND WILL ONLY GET BETTER. WE ARE ALWAYS THERE FOR ALL OF YOU AND I LOVE YOU, EMILY, AND KARISSA SO VERY MUCH.LOVE GRANDMA
Hello Brian and Emily, Guess who this is? Your favorite Great Uncle and Aunt out here in Kansas we finally got a new computer that works a Dell, now we might be able to keep in touch. You both are incrediable, I can't even imagine what the two of you have been though you have to be the toughest and strongest people I have ever known. Brian that letter was awesome you do have a great family Emily's family is so close I am honored to be part of it. Emily and Brian, Karissa is soooooo cute you both did good wish I could hold her. well better go for now don't want to take up all the space we love you both and our thoughts and prayers have always been with you, take care we love you both Tom and Cora
Hello Brian and Em,
Brian I have never met you but you seem like a wonderful guy. Em and I were good friends in highschool. Emily is a geat person that loves you very much. Don't look at your life dreams as being gone look at it like you need to do a little rearanging. Hold your head up and stay strong. You can probably look back and think "how did I ever get through that." It seems like your life is coming back together so make sure you enjoy EVERY bit of it. I think you two are the strongest people I know. Enjoy each other and Enjoy life!
Christina Smith
Brian,
You can still have your dreams, and fulfill them. You will just approach them in a different way. Never give up!!
Love you!
Brian
Way to go!
I have checked this blog often, first daily and then switching to every so often,ever since Katie started it, waiting for the day you would post something yourself. And now that day has come. You are probably tired of people saying you are an inspiration to them, so I won't say it. But knowing that people you will never even meet are praying for you and cheering you on should be, hopefully, an encouragement to you. It's true that some of the dreams you once had will never be realized--but if you focus on those things that is a sure route to depression and futility. You will find new dreams, and you will be a source for other people to find new dreams and new hope as well. keep on pressing forward.
Sincerely
Carol Taylor (Katie's aunt)
Good morning
This is a wonderful day and Im hoping your basking in the warmth of it. Terry just mentioned about the UCP business. Let me mention that at least with Health services you know the snake your dealing with and Joanne Phile is a different kind of species. She is toxic and doesnt follow up on anything b/c I presume the paper work is very time comsuming BEWARE your on your own with UCP and if the girl or guy doesnt show or say he or she quits you need to run an add in the paper for more help the hiring and firing is on you which is good because you have a choice but believe me theres no help from UCP theres room for much freedom and no regulations NO EXPERIENCE NEEDED AT ALL NO FORMAL TRAINING watch out for that that could be detrimental to you as well as Brian. PLease take your time and really investagate this situation not for me but for your sake your husband s sake your sanity sake. KNOW YOUR Animal before taking it into your home I happen to know this woman and this arena and its a place I would not shoose to play in . But your an adult and you need to make up your own mind. If things are not going well with Health Services go to the top the very top Heads will roll and if your the butt of gossip in the office then if your NOT told what was said then your loyalty is NOT to the person who said YOUR the gossip of the office Squelch that gossip NOW and get things organixed correctly in your home remember you have the power and the muscle behind you. Go to the TOP cllimb to the top and everyone below will be attentive watchand see Just advice only Bonnie
You three are absolutely gorgeous and I am so proud of you both!!! Way to go Bri with the typing and please keep it up because I look foward so much to hearing from you and seeing how you are. Have a blessed day and know you are always in my thoughts and prayers!!
Love
Katie
Uncle Bri,
I love you so much. You are and always have been, and forever will be, such an inspiration to me. I have always looked up to you since i was born. remember "dunk bri, dunk" All the memories of us when we were little, and now to this day, will never fade away!!! You have a wonderful wife, and a beautiful little girl, and i am so proud of you. Like mom said, you will still live your dreams, and fullfill them all, just in a different way. This goes back to the day you got hurt, "be strong bri, i love you!!" I want you to always know how much of a joy it was to help with the benefit and get everything going. Alot of thanks should go out to scenda also, she did alot with the benefit too. I will always look back on that and be so proud of what was raised and all the wishes and prayers to you, em and karissa!!! You are so important to me, and i love you more than anything in the world!! i am always here for you, if ya need to talk, cry, yell, whatever it is!!!! I love you Bri xxoo
Em.. Auntie Em.... I am so happy to have you in my life and as a part of my family!! We have been through alot together, and have talked about so much stuff... i dont know what id do without you!! Thank you so much for all of your patience, and love and care for Brian, He loves you more than anything, and is so lucky to have a wife like you!!! For you also, i am still always here for you, like i said to bri, to laugh with, cry with, yell at, anything i am here!!! I love you so much. Thank you for everything!!!
Karissa, i know you are not old enough to read this but i dont care! You have two of the most wonderful people as parents!! You are going to grow up to be such a beautiful little girl!!! You are such a gorgeous baby, and i love you too!!! I am so happy to have a cousin on this side of the family!! Always remember how much love there is for you, and always remember how much your father and mother love you!!!
now that ive taken up a whole page, i just want to say thank you once again and i love you all so much!!! Stay Strong Bri, you can get through this!!!! LOve you all xxxooo
Hello dear Keddys,
Just a quick note to let you know I'm thinking of you and really am rooting for you along with many. If you ever want something to read for fun, you can keep up with my blog as well, poemapromise.blogspot.com, though it's not that exciting right now. I graduate May 6th, and from now until then will be with my face firmly planted in a book or typing as I have a big project due soon. I'll be headed north to WI for the summer and hopefully will be home the last week of July and first week of August before heading back to China. So I PLAN on seeing you then!! Love you lots and keep being as beautiful as you are!!
Love
Katie
Can't begin to tell you how proud we are of you.We hadn't checked the Blog for a couple of weeks and was so surprised to see you had written yourself. Just wrote an email to you. Will see you in the next couple of weeks. Hope that North Country has warmed up a little. Love you all. Aunt Janet
As a wife who had to change her life beacuse of her husband's health, a cancerous brain tumor for 10 years, I can say that Emily has not "given up her life", but has replaced it with a different life that she has been handed. Most marriages go through this in some way, yours is just the most dramatic type. You all sound happy and loving, and I am sure this will last. What a wonderful family you have, nuclear and extended. You are right, you are a very fortunate man, in spite of the challenges of everyday life. And, yes, you have a gorgeous wife and daughter!
May God continue to bless you in many ways.
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