Manhattan

Made for Manhattan. I walked down the hallway of the second floor of Mount Sinai hospital yesterday evening, an unfamiliar place, certainly a slightly different scence than the back roads of Colton. But, a place of purpose and healing none the less. Purpose; to finally see Brian and Emily. Their journey has been a long one.
For those of you visiting this story for the first time, Brian Keddy suffered a spinal cord injury this past July, 2005. Emily (Fisher) Keddy and he have spent the past 4 months in Vermont recovering and getting to the place where Brian can start physical therapy. Last week, after applying to many programs around the North Country, the couple found out that the only place that can accept them was Mount Sinai, Madison Ave, New York, NY.
Certainly a new kind of adventure for the couple, they were transported to the facility last Tuesday, and have started physical therapy. Emily, now 8 months pregnant, is Brian's primary care-taker and therapy partner. The program requires that a family member be part of the therapy daily. So, waking to sleeping (and during the night) Emily shares the caretaking responsibility with hospital staff. In her words, "I never thought I could do this," Emily has been surprising herself daily with the strength and determination to love and care for Brian, and plan for a new daughter who is planning to make her appearance sometime around Thanksgiving.
Certainly, this is a task. I (Katie Evans), arrived in Manhattan last night after a series of very seridipidous events, to share in this phase of the journey with the Keddys. This blog is an attempt to link friends and family via the internet so that the Keddy's can share their journey, and have people who can effectively know what is going on and pray. Once this gets up and going, hopefully Emily will be able to log her days, I'll do my best until then.
So, it's 10:30 am Monday morning and I am across the street at Wheaton College friends' apartment who just happens to be a resident at Mount Sinai in pediatrics. This journey has been a surprising and sure one, the sheer number of people making this time of healing possible is quite overwhelming. So, for now, Graham and Rebecca have offered their home as a place of refuge, and certainly is that.
Last night I visited the Keddys. I met Brian for the first time, and was so impressed with his spirit. He certainly has chosen the path of hope. As Emily was taking a shower, Brian shared with me how he was adjusting to this hospital, he liked the food, has made friends, and is excited about his recovery. As he sees it now, his life is precious and meant for something significant. He is eagerly anticipating the birth of his daughter, and is thankful that he will be able to spend a lot of time with her. Now, that's reason for hope!!

I brought old high school pictures of Emily and I to peruse, and laugh we did. It is good to see Emily after 9 yeard; hard to believe it's been that long. I think we're both convinced we've changed for the better:> For Emily, this time is purpose filled more than she could ever have imagined. She is adament that her life is made for caring for the ones she loves. And she is doing a great job at that!!!
For you family members reading this, a big encouragent to you (Noreen and everyone). You are loved and appreciated by your children in ways they can hardly express. They know the sacrifices that you are making, and are so thankful. They feel your love here, even though they know it is hard for both of you to be separated. Don't lose heart, Emily and Brian are well cared for. There is a great group of people praying, and acting. Today we are looking for an OB/GYN for Emily's weekly checkup. We plan on a walk in Central Park (1 block away!!) and to get Brian on a schedule so that life can relax a little.
At the end of each section, you can add comments and encouragement, please do!!

5 Comments:
Hi Emily and Brian:
This is a great thing Katie has done for you. You can keep an account of everything you both have gone through. When your baby gets older she can read them too. I hope you guys have become adjusted sounds like you have. You will soon be home and with the baby you will be so busy the days won't seem so long. Remember we are all thinking of you and love you both very much. Happy Birthday Brian (on the 21st) as usual my card will probably be late. I will write again soon.
Love, Sue
Hey Em & Brian, I think this is great that we can all send you messages as often as we want. Today is Grandparent's Breakfast at Clifton-Fine so it's very busy. I only have two students in here with me right now and they are playing on the computer. Of course, I only have 8 students total anyway. I think about you both all the time. Happy Birthday on Friday Brian!! Take care and I will be checking daily to see if there are updates. love, Julie
Hello Emily and Brian,
So glad to have the opportunity to communicate with you.
It is beautiful in NYC this time of the year. You can walk anywhere! I loved Central Park when I was there with Mom. You really do find you have strenght you never thought you had. You do things you gagged at before and are glad to do it... The important thing is not to give up... Pray when things get tough and then get tough and get going... I can't wait to see pic of Briley... Such a prety name and original too! Love you both Valerie
Happy Birthday Brian!!! I hope you get this today. I just want to tell you how proud I am of you both, and how awesome you are!! I have been praying for you, along with a multitude of my friends, and our prayer chains. Also, when I volunteer at the prison at Walsh Hospital, I go into their rooms, and the first thing they ask is "How is Brian?" They also pray for you too, Brian, along with Emily. I talked to your twin brother at the benefit Brian, and you know how partial I am to twins, that's why I love you so much. I have a favorite bible verse for you, and I put it on everything. It is Philippians 4 verse l3, which says "I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me." God has a purpose for you and your special family Brian. You can do it!!!!! I just want you to know that you are loved, not only by us, but God loves you too. When you get really down, say the Serenity Prayer, a million times a day if needed like I did. "God Grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change; the courage to change the things I can; and the wisdom to know the difference." Keep up the good work!!We all love you guys. Love Joan and Aunt Eleanor.
Hello Bri and Emily. We all pray for both of you as well the family everyday. Please keep up the hard work. I will continue to check the site everyday and will post little blurbs as much as possible. We love you. See you at Christmas. Scenda, Russell and Kristianne
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